You can go T12, T8 or LED, and 2, 3 or 4 lamps. That is decided by which ballast you buy.
Instant, or Rapid/Programmed Start.
This is decided by the wiring of your fixture. Each bulb end has 2 pins because there's a small filament in each end of the bulb. Rapid or Programmed Start ballasts use both pins to preheat those filaments for an easy start and longer lamp life - so they have 2 wires to each end of each bulb. Instant start ballasts do not, so they only have 1 wire. If you have instant-start, stay with it - otherwise you may need to replace the lamp sockets.
T12 vs T8 vs LED
You probably have inventory of T12 bulbs, but they are basically obsolete. T8 bulbs are inexpensive, more efficient, have much better color rendition (typically starting at 80% CRI) and come in several light colors (3500K, 5100K etc.) Edit: since I wrote this I have started fitting 90CRI T8 tubes, readily available for under $2 each, they are marvelous. You don't see it in the tubes, but rather, in the stuff being lit up.
LEDs come in 2 flavors: "direct wire" (rewire the fixture for 120V on the lamp ends) or "keep the ballast". (no rewiring, the smarter LED emulates a bulb). The trouble with the second kind is you must maintain the ballast, and it must be of a certain type (i.e. instant start). With direct wire, you remove the ballast entirely and wire 120V to the lamp end(s). Some "direct wire" LEDs take the 120V on one end of the lamp (the other end is a dummy) - that can be a problem in a fixture with 1-wire sockets.
2, 3 or 4 bulbs
T8 bulbs are generally brighter than T12 bulbs. Look at the bulb rating in lumens, but multiply by the ballast factor (a percentage) - they make ballasts designed to underdrive or even overdrive the bulb's rating. Often when lighting is carefully designed, they replace 4 bulbs with 3 or 2, because T8's are brighter and/or because they found the space was "over-lit".
LED lumens are lower, but they're worth a lot more, because they're all aimed in the right direction - unlike fluorescents which waste a lot of energy lighting the backside of a reflector.
Sourcing
Changing ballasts is rather straightforward and I pay between $12 and $30 on 1000bulbs.com or other sources. I aim for middle to top shelf quality - my first choice is GE, and I find good deals on boxes of new ballasts on eBay. Edit: 4-lamp ballasts are readily available. The tactic of getting 3-lamp ballasts and only fitting 3 tubes works well with T8, as they are somewhat brighter.
I have also been doing great on eBay buying new or lightly used ballasts that were pulled from newish fixtures for LED upgrades. As low as $4 each.
I regularly see direct-wire LED replacement 4 foot "tubes" for under $10, often from 1000bulbs.com or superbrightLEDs.com.
It's pretty easy work if you don't mess with the lamp sockets - just get a big bag of "blue" wire-nuts, a stripper, and go to town. If your fixture is hard-wired, you must install "disconnecting means" - I power down, install half the connector on the hot lines, then power up and do everything else.
When I replace lamp socket ends ("tombstones"), I pay about 60-70 cents each for those, and they are fairly standard. But the labor gets pretty high.
You're much better off with the (did you notice, much lighter) electronic ballast. Instant start is fine, since it's the only type possible with 1-pin ends.
There are only 4 parts to a fluorescent lamp: Chassis, lampholders, ballast and lamps. You just eliminated ballast. Lamps, I'm trusting you here. That leaves lampholders.
Look at the lampholders closely, make sure they are intact and the jumper between the yellow lampholders is intact. 8' 1-pin replacement lampholders can be had for a couple of bucks, I replace them all the time. (4' 2-pin lampholders are like 60 cents.)
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Those sockets at the end of the fixture that the tube snaps into are called lampholders.
You are correct that fluorescent tubes have 2 pins on each end (a preheat filament is between them) and some ballasts do not use that feature. To avoid having to make a bunch of jumper wires, manufacturers use a shorting lampholder which internally shorts both pins. You are cursed with those.
Virtually all lampholders come down to 3-4 different compatible styles (overwhelmingly one**), all of which I've been able to find online. I've never had to abandon a fixture due to odd lampholders. That seems even less likely with a shorting lampholder. Get some non-shorting lampholders. Done.
In the future you avoid this problem either by making sure you are buying direct-wire LED "tubes" that feed from opposite ends (that's safer anyway) or buy those particular plug-n-play LEDs made for your ballast type (but then you have to maintain the ballast, no thanks.)
** I just overhauled a prewar fixture. The 4' fixture was bulletproof drawn 18 gauge steel and weighed 10 pounds without the ballast. The lampholders were trapped in a weird way, but guess what, they were the most common type. I put a T8 ballast in it, I go for the 90CRI real tubes, better light quality.