You are correct that the red should be power to the light, except the other side of the switch should take off from the line in side of the GFCI, there is no requirement for lighting to be protected by GFCI, so do not connect to the load side. The GFCI tripped because there was a mismatch in the currents between power wire and the neutral wire attached to the GFCI.
This is based on my best guess based on the information you provided. To be certain, you should examine the wiring in the other switch box to ensure the black is unswitched power, white is neutral, and the red is connected to another wire leading to the light. The main uncertainty is how the other switch plays into this scenario, as there were not enough wires for a 3 way setup with power to an outlet as well.
Incidentally, I would suggest avoiding the push-in terminals if binding screw connections are available. Doing so is more work, but it provides a better more reliable connection, provided the binding screw is properly used.
In the first place, having two pieces of equipment (the dryer and the aircon) that both need quite a bit of power, both on the same circuit is probably not a good idea. You have already noticed there is interference between them. So the first step would be to get one or the other onto a second circuit. I don't know how electrical codes are in your country (which you haven't specified - it may be significant due to different voltage levels), but in most of Europe we tend to put:
- lighting on one phase
- the kitchen plaque (a high power consumer) on a second phase
- power outlets on a third phase.
The name of the game is to spread consumption equally across all three AC phases.
In the second place, you say the dryer is rated at 25A. It would be nice to verify that it is really drawing that much current but no more, for example with a clamp ammeter (e.g.: http://en-us.fluke.com/products/clamp-meters/ ). Perhaps somebody in the trade could lend you one.
If it really draws that much current (or almost as much), this is indeed a piece of equipment with a high power requirement, that I feel should go on its own circuit all by itself.
Additional note: there are two kinds of electrical "tripper". One is the classical circuit breaker, that breaks the circuit when excessive current draw takes place. This is what happens when you have a short-circuit within the apparatus.
The second type is a differential breaker, that actuates when a large difference in current takes places between the phase and neutral wires. The idea is that the difference in current must be going somewhere - possibly directly to the machine chassis and then to earth. This is quite dangerous for the human operator, since if he/she has wet hands and a good connexion to earth, the excess current could very well short to earth through the operator.
It is standard practice (at least in Europe) for several circuit breakers to be protected by a single differential breaker. If any of the circuits develop a short to earth, the differential will trip leaving all circuits open.
The OP would need to have the dryer checked, that it has no internal short circuits. This can be done by connecting the apparatus to another circuit.
He should further check it has been correctly wired to AC. Swapping the neutral wire with the earth is a relatively easy mistake to make if non-standard color wires have been used. Hint: the earth wire and connexion should be green/yellow and have a slightly larger section than neutral and live.
HTH
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No, because you are talking about a 30A load, and that is way, way, way too much current for common switches. By the time you pay for the exotic switches you would need, you would just be better off wiring a subpanel.
It might be possible to wire that legally, but I rather doubt that's what happened. It sounds like an ugly hack job that's just waiting to electrocute someone. I wouldn't touch any of it with a 10-foot pole, especially if you are a tenant in somebody else's house.
You simply need to train your laundry people that they cannot run the dryer 30 minutes after anyone uses hot water. That shouldn't be in the way of washing clothes; hot water is only used at the beginning of the cycle, and the water heater should have caught up by the time the cycle ends and it's time to go in the dryer.
Stacking loads (drying one while the next one is in the wash) is not allowed unless they select "Cold" water.