How to wire isolation relay to create C-wire

I'm trying to follow the ecobee instructions here:
https://support.ecobee.com/hc/en-us/articles/227874527-ecobee-thermostat-installation-with-an-isolation-relay

Which uses a wiring diagram as such:

I have this relay:

And here is the wiring diagram for the relay:

Can someone tell me how the ecobee diagram translates to the relay diagram? Which numbered terminals are going to T & T and which one is going to W1 and Transformer N? Thanks.

Edit:
Additional info about my specific setup.
This is the overview of my furnace:
https://i.imgur.com/4d6PZcL.jpg
I have the main zone which is where I want to connect the smart thermostat. I have a 2nd zone which I'm leaving alone. I have a 3rd for the water tank which I'm also leaving alone.
This is the wiring for the main zone. The T&T are in the upper right and although you can't see it there is a 3rd green wire that is currently not in use but available.
https://i.imgur.com/Ygiv3nR.jpg
main zone (aquastat) diagram:
https://i.imgur.com/Fjvl6KQ.jpg
zone 2 diagram:
https://i.imgur.com/4yzNPUA.jpg
zone 2 wiring:
https://i.imgur.com/2bt0huQ.jpg
water heater wiring:
https://i.imgur.com/yBoI9Aq.jpg
igniter:
https://i.imgur.com/UyUQV9u.jpg