If a particular question could have multiple answers, you would use an answer. If a particular question has one answer, you would use the answer.
However, if you have multiple questions (as in your interview example), you have multiple answers (not necessarily per question - each may have exactly one answer or many answers). In this case you would use an answer, since there is more than one answer in the interview (but not necessarily more than one per question).
To address your examples:
At the outset of the interview students were told that if they did not know an answer they could say "pass" and move on to the next question.
There are multiple questions in an interview. It's possible they will each have only one correct answer; even in that case there are many answers throughout the interview.
It is always a good idea to go over the test to make sure that you answered every question. If you do not know the answer, guess. You may get the right answer or partial credit.
This one, I expect, is contributing to your confusion. Each question on the test has a single answer, but the test has many. The first sentence talks about the test as a whole, where it can be understood that the second and third sentence talk about a particular question (without making the transition very obvious, other than using "the answer" and "the right answer").
It can be a reasoning exercise in which the student has to figure out an answer on her or his own.
It's a reasonable expectation that a reasoning exercise may have multiple correct answers (or no correct answer at all), and that each student will likely come up with something different.
The teacher-librarian serves as a guide to help students figure out the answer on their own.
This likely refers to the general case of a student having a question. The student wants to find the answer to the question (or possibly an answer). For the general case of an unknown/unspecified question, the answer is usually used (at least I would, and that seems to be what I've seen), although an answer would also be correct.
Use definite article, when a singular noun is meant to express a whole class:
The cow is a useful animal for mankind
The cow is an animal species useful for the homo sapiens
(The) cows are useful animals for farmers
Here you are talking about classes (the cow species, the mankind, the farmers): "the cows (all of them as a group) are useful for the human beings (again all of them)".
Use indefinite article, in the sense of any, to single out an individual as the representative of a class:
A cow is a useful animal for a farmer
A herd of cows is useful for a farmer
In the last case you are not talking about class of the cows or the farmers, but about a single, indefinite (unknown or irrelevant the actual identity) cow (or herd of cows) and farmer.
Best Answer
Ignore the article you read. It's misleading.
Use 'a' if the 'second attempt' you are talking about has not happened yet. Use the if the 'second attempt' has already happened, and you are referring to it at a later point. Therefore, 'can the driver make a second attempt today?' is perfectly correct, because the driver is being asked to do something (the 'second attempt') that has not already happened.
If you were talking about the first attempt, which presumably failed, then you would use 'the', because if it failed, then it must have already happened (if you remember the rule I mentioned). So, you could say 'unfortunately, the driver failed on the first attempt', but NOT 'unfortunately, the driver failed on a first attempt'.
Similarly, you should NOT say 'can the driver make a second attempt today?' because the 'second attempt' is merely a REQUEST, meaning it obviously has not already happened.
Feel free to ask about this in the comment section, if you want me to make anything clearer.