Learn English – Being them / being themselves

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Here is the sentence I am struggling to make sure it is correct. What pronoun is correct- changing them to themselves or as written?

But my friends love being them, and I love them being them, but I still love being me!

Best Answer

"Themselves" is better, in the same way that "being you" is worse than "being yourself" — it's better to directly refer to the entire self, not just the essence. But this is a subtle distinction and the alternative isn't entirely wrong, so e.g. "being me" isn't rejected.

You can see from this comparison of different phrases that the preference is not completely unambiguous:

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