I am an English learner here.
I am filling in an application form for a program and I would like to make a special request on something.
I don't want to be rude, and I don't want to cause any inconvenience. To be honest, I don't even know if my application would be successful, and now I am here demanding special treatment.
This makes me wonder what is the best way to put forward a request when you are not exactly in the position to do so?
I have heard people say "Dare I say" before. From the context, I assume it was used when you are afraid that the next statement might be offensive.
In this situation, can I start with "Dare I ask the following?" If it sounds weird, is there any alternative?
Thanks guys.
Best Answer
"Dare I say" or "dare I ask" should both be understood by your readers.
For this particular context, alternatives might be:
On the other hand, if you're making a deal-breaking demand, you might want to word it more forcefully.
If the application includes a spot for custom requests or ideas, that's what they expect you to put there - no apologies necessary.