Can we use "What are you like?"?
According to Longman dictionary we can ask "What is (s)he like?".
I want to know if we can also use this for "you". Because when I searched it in the internet, everybody said that's an idiom.
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Can we use "What are you like?"?
According to Longman dictionary we can ask "What is (s)he like?".
I want to know if we can also use this for "you". Because when I searched it in the internet, everybody said that's an idiom.
Best Answer
It would be odd and possibly rude to ask someone, "What are you like?" because, presumably, they're standing right there and can answer more specific questions. So you can open with something like:
And then follow up with more targeted questions:
And so on. Of course there are many personality tests that ask someone to select words or phrases that describe them. Some examples of the language used at the start of these tests:
Personality tests are impersonal (it's just you and the computer) and voluntary, so it doesn't feel intrusive. Otherwise if someone corners you at a party and asks "what are you like?" it feels more like an interrogation than polite interest.
This is, of course, cultural and may vary from place to place and person to person. I've been in conversations with people from other cultures where these kind of direct questions are perfectly fine and indicate a true desire to know more about me.