Learn English – How to complete the sentence, “If you don’t mind, ____”

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I'm trying to learn the sentence structure and I had a few thoughts about the possible structural continuations of the sentence. I'd appreciate it if you could introduce any new possible continuations of the sentence to me.

If you don't mind, I'd like you to stay with us.

If you don't mind, I'd appreciate it if you stayed with us.

If you don't mind, I'd appreciate you staying with us.

I'm not sure if such sentence would be grammatically correct, but is it at all possible to have any phrase other than "I would" or in more general terms "(a pronoun) would" after the word "mind," while maintaining the starting phrase of the sentence?

(I'm always looking to improve on my English; so, I'd greatly appreciate it if you would point out any grammatical mistakes I've made in describing my question)

Best Answer

As @drmoishe-pippik notes in the comment, all sound correct in US English except that "appreciate you staying" should be "appreciate your staying". All three forms are polite and non-assertive: "If you don't mind, I would..."

More assertive forms would also sound (almost) correct: "If you don't mind, I want you to..." or "...I need you to...". However, in this case I would reverse the phrases:

  • I want you to stay with us -- if you don't mind.
  • I need you to stay with us -- if you are willing.
  • Please stay with us.

In all cases "I" am expressing a desire (that you stay with us) and making it clear that it is "your" decision as to whether to do so.

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