Learn English – “I am not really liking it very much…” vs “I don’t really like it very much…”

differencestative-verbs

Could someone please tell me what is the difference between the two sentences below?

1 – I am not really liking it very much over there.

2 – I don't really like it very much over there.

Best Answer

For a learner of English as a second language, mastering all the subtleties of the present continuous or progressive tense is probably the hardest to achieve but among the the most communicative aspects of English.

This particular case I find too overwhelming to try to de-construct, but will an example do? If my daughter returned home from her new boarding-school and said,

"I don't really like it very much over there."

I'd ask her what was wrong, perhaps encourage her to give it more time. Whereas if she said,

"I am not really liking it very much over there,"

Then I might ask if she'd rather come home for good. If I give you a clue as to why, it's partly only subjective:

Grammatically, you use a "..ing" word for things you do actively, like

"I am watching TV" or "I am listening to music".

Whereas verbs for things you cannot help doing do not tend to end in "..ing"

"I see the sky" or "I hear music." "I like it here"

Now, when you deliberately add an "..ing" to something you cannot help, well..personally, in my daughter's case, it would give me the impression she'd been *trying to like it" in her new school, but hadn't succeeded - yet was still trying.

FWIW