Learn English – Is it “sit on the lap” or “sit in the lap”

prepositions

There's not enough seats here. What's the right preposition to use with "lap" in this situation?

You can sit on my lap.

or

You can sit in my lap.

I believe that, similar to "lay your head", it would be on my lap.

He was laying his head on my lap.

Best Answer

In General

According to Google Ngrams, they two phrases are used almost interchangeably, with “in my lap” slightly ahead. As an American English speaker, I wouldn't think twice about either.

Google Ngrams, in my lap, on my lap

In Particular

I didn't think to check this at first, but in your specific case it looks like “sit on my lap” may be preferred. I would still personally accept either.

Google Ngrams, sit in * lap, sit on * lap