SHORT ANSWER:
Yes, the continuative present perfect may be used to signify a state which continues right up to the present regardless of whether it continues in the present. It is not, however, used to signify a state which does not continue right up to the present.
LONG ANSWER:
The 'continuative' present perfect establishes the past event or events it names as a state which endures right up to the present.
Situations grammatically depicted as states are presumed to continue indefinitely, until something happens to end them.
Consequently, the present perfect permits you to infer that the state it describes continues in the present. In fact, this is the default assumption with an unqualified present perfect. If you had only the statement “I've been driving a hearse for the last 25 years” you would legitimately infer that he is still driving a hearse.
But the present perfect does not entail—logically require—the continuation. Linguists call this an implicature, as opposed to an implication: it is in inference which may be cancelled by a contrary fact. That's what you have here, with the statement “Today is my first day driving a cab.”
Note, by the way, that there is in this particular use of the perfect, no difference between the use with the progressive, “I have been driving”, and without it, “I have driven”. The phrase “for the last 25 years” imposes the same continuative reading on both.
Note, too, that because the hearse-driving does not continue into the present the speaker might with propriety have employed the ‘simple past’: “I drove a hearse for 25 years.” I suspect he uses the perfect (and the progressive) because what he wants to convey is that there is a continuity in his activity: “I’m still driving, what’s changed is that now I’m driving a cab.”
Note, finally, that the notion of ‘present’ is defined pragmatically. Obviously when someone says he has driven a hearse for 25 years he does not mean that he drove continuously throughout that period. By the same token, the ‘present’ which that driving continued ‘right up to’ is not the moment in time when the statement is uttered but “today”
The case of John’s tardiness is a little different. In the circumstances you describe, neither the continuative present perfect nor the phrase “for the last 30 minutes” is proper. You are dealing with a much different timeframe and scale than the cabdriver. Your answer (“alas”) makes it clear that you are pragmatically defining three distinct epochs: 1) you wait for 30 minutes 2) you depart, and a couple of minutes elapse—long enough, at any rate, that you are no longer in the vicinity of the appointed meetingplace 3) then John calls. Consequently, the state of waiting (1) did not continue “right up to” the present (3).
Here are some ways you might express the facts:
I waited for you for thirty minutes, but, alas, when you didn’t show up I left.
I waited for you for thirty minutes, but, alas, I’ve left now.
I waited for you for thirty minutes, but, alas, I had to leave.
You should not employ the progressive I was waiting here; that is employed to speak about something which happened while you were waiting.
You are quite right! In order to avoid confusion, it would be appropriate to use the following phrase for the father:
Have you gone to school today?
In standard English, the word combination "to go to school" means to attend school in order to study. Saying "to come to school" does not imply any educational goal and "to be at school", which is your case, is ambiguous because it does not state the goal of being in the building either.
Now, let's think of a proper tense. The variant "Did you go to school today?" might be used in daily speech, but I am not sure if it is grammatically proper for use in formal writing.
Since "today" is not a finished period of time, we shall use Present Perfect to speak of any event that took place "today". That is why the usage of the above variant would be quite slipshod.
All in all, I advise you to make a research on the feasibility of the above variant, since my knowledge is limited at this point. Thank you for your question!
Best Answer
Buying is seen as an event rather than a continuous activity, so you can't use present perfect continuous in relation to buying a single house. You could use it if you were professionally involved in the purchase of houses, even though it's a number of separate activities over a long period of time:
When you want to describe the purchase of your own house, you would use past simple to describe the purchase, and present perfect continuous to describe the payment by instalments: