Learn English – “Make a success of”

I'm afraid the only general distinction is the one you have already named: do = perform and make = create.

But that is no more than a general tendency; as your examples show, in any specific instance either or both may be relevant, and at some point in the history of the language one has earned more favour than the other.

It's often possible to see a reason why one is used rather than the other in a particular situation, and that's useful for remembering which one is used; but it is of no value in predicting which one is used when you encounter a new situation. For instance:

You complete your homework assignments, which included writing down the answers to a series of questions. It seems that should be 'making' your homework, but in fact the proper phrase is doing your homework. You might remember this by considering that sometimes your homework doesn't call for you to 'make' anything: it might be reading a chapter in your textbook. The important thing is you did the tasks that were assigned.

You agree to act as the fourth person in a game of contract bridge. You would think this would call for 'do', since you are performing a role; but in fact you make a fourth. You can remember this by noting that what you are doing is “making” a complete table of players—would that have occurred to you before you encountered the phrase?

There's just no telling. You have to learn the right term case by case.

In the first part, I would say:

Glasses suit you.

though it would be more natural to say:

Glasses look good on you.

Glasses should be treated as a mass noun, since you are not pointing out a specific kind. So no article is used. And suit is better than fit, since fit has more to do with size.

In the second part, I would say:

I think you should go for the blue one. It suits you because your eyes are blue too. So they match.

or simpler:

I think you should go for the blue one. It suits you because they match your blue eyes.