Learn English – Reply to “How are you?” : Are “I’m thirsty” “I’m hungry” “I’m angry” etc. okay

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When someone asks you "How are you?" the expected or usual reply (I assume) would be "I'm fine" "Not bad" "As usual" etc. Instead, is it okay to give a more specific and honest reply of your current condition i.e. "I'm angry" "I'm hungry" "I'm thirsty",etc. ?

Best Answer

Yes, that's fine to do in informal situations, such as speaking to a friend, but it sounds a little bit weird and informal in formal situations. The normal

How are you?

I'm fine(, thank you). / Not bad.

is more of a conversation starter than an actual question, for example it is used in formal settings (e.g. interviews, meetings) to start a more important and serious topic:

Interviewer: Welcome. How are you today?

Interviewee: I'm fine, thank you.

Interviewer: So, {insert name here}, what are your thoughts on {topic X}?

Saying something that isn't the normal reply in such a place derails the purpose of the "How are you" in that sort of situation, and seems informal and "out-of-touch" if you do say it.