Learn English – the polite way for asking if someone is still alive

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I know that "to pass away" is the polite synonym for "to die". What is the polite synonym for "to be alive"?

I want to use it for the A's sentence in the following conversation:

A: Is your grandfather still alive?

B: No, he passed away last year.

Update:

  • I'm asking this question because I think if I ask someone this kind of touching question, they might consider it offensive and even reply me:"Did you expect him to be dead?". So I thought maybe there would be a better way for asking such questions on somebody's condition in terms of being alive or dead.

  • In eastern cultures including Iranian culture, there are honorific terms that should be used (as social etiquettes) when we are talking to/ about a person who is above us in terms of his/ her age (like a grandfather/ grandmother) or his/ her social position (a king/ a queen/ a president/ a boss, etc).

Best Answer

I would use "still with us":

Is your grandfather still with us?

Others may make alternate suggestions.

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