Learn English – “we have different rhythms” vs “we have different paces”

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I was talking to a friend (who has passed some of his years in Canada), and I said to him

It's difficult to meet to discuss about a problem because we have different rhythms.

and he agreed by saying

…it is true that we have different paces.

Now, since my English level is still not good enough, or at least it isn't as good as I would like, especially in terms of the richness and rightness of my vocabulary and expressions I should use, I'm not sure if I can say what I said and, if I can, are both sentences equivalent? Is one more common than the other? Which one sounds more familiar to native English speakers? I know that this might be different from country to country, but you can simply mention your country, if you wish.

To be honest, I used the term rhythm because it's also used in my mother language (of course translated). I didn't even know about pace.

Best Answer

Interesting question.

Rhythm can refer to the stopping and starting or speeding up and slowing down or
ebb and flow of something.

For example, if you are awake during the day (which is usual) and your friend is awake during the night (sometimes referred to as "being a night owl") you both have different personal rhythms (not to be confused with circadian rhythm.

Pace is usually used to describe constant speed while travelling, either literally or metaphorically

The runners ran at a 4-minute-mile pace
The pace of life inside big cities is hectic

You two may be missing each other because

your rhythm is not at the same pace as your friend, or
your friend's pace does not have the same rhythm as yours

Obviously, pace and rhythm wouldn't match since they mean different things, but by using them you both may be suggesting that you view your daily lives in different ways.

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