Learn English – What does “Cheer up” mean

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Some people say that you can't use that phrase when the listener is in real bad situations, such as having their arm broken, car accidents or something like those, because the phrase could feel like "Hey that's nothing, just shrug it off and stop being childish".

But I've seen some scenes in many media where people use it even to the ones whose family member has passed away. How should I use "Cheer up" correctly?

Best Answer

'Cheer up' means become happier.

There is a difference between grammatically correctly and being socially aware.

Oh your brother has just died, cheer up!

is grammatically correct, but damn insensitive. It is now very rarely considered okay to say "cheer up", "smile it might never happen" etc unless you know the person and what has made them unhappy in the first place.

Here is a scene where it is okay, but it is not okay in virtually any other situation.

Wife: Why are you so sad?
Husband: I just spilt the whole bottle of milk
Wife: Cheer up! I will go to the shop and buy you another one, I was just going anyway.

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