Learn English – what does ”live through one’s child” mean
idiomsmeaning-in-context
The sentence is this
if you know a better way for me to live through my son, I'd like to hear it.
Best Answer
The usual meaning, as Mick suggests, is to live the life one wants to have through close involvement in someone else’s life. It’s commonly used to talk about parents who had ambitions that didn't go as far as they wanted, and are pushing their children to achieve similar things so the parents can feel accomplished. It can also be used for any other case where one person’s desires are satisfied by making someone else achieve them.
Aha! I found a definitive reference to a meaning of muster that's specific to Australia and New Zealand, at Wikipedia:
A muster (Au/NZ) or a roundup (US) is the process of gathering livestock. Musters usually involve cattle, sheep or horses, but may also include goats, camels, buffalo or other animals. [...] Mustering is a long, difficult and sometimes dangerous job [...]
In your example, it looks like muster through is being used metaphorically by Australian farmers who would already be familiar with the literal meaning of mustering as making a long, difficult journey across the outback, trying to control livestock along the way. Metaphorically, it could refer to making a long "journey" through a very difficult situation.
"Down the block" in this usage may indicate someone who lives several houses away, but in the same block. Or it may indicate someone who lives in the adjacent block, but I think more often the former. Compare "down the road", meaning some distance along the same road.
Best Answer
The usual meaning, as Mick suggests, is to live the life one wants to have through close involvement in someone else’s life. It’s commonly used to talk about parents who had ambitions that didn't go as far as they wanted, and are pushing their children to achieve similar things so the parents can feel accomplished. It can also be used for any other case where one person’s desires are satisfied by making someone else achieve them.