Learn English – What does “play games” mean in this sentence

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I have a paragraph which is about how to talk to women if you are a man. The writer said that a man should be direct when he talks to women. The paragraph has a sentence:

Being this direct is easy when you know there is no need to play games with women, to impress them, to hide your sexual intentions toward them, and that they actually enjoy when a male speaks to them like that, while communicating with women is also easier when you know they are usually indirect.

I want to ask that "play games" in this sentence mean "deceive other people", right? Or it has another meaning?

Best Answer

Play games means

To be evasive or deceptive

(free dictionary, under 'idioms')

or

deal with someone or something in a way that lacks due seriousness or respect.

(Definition that Google offers on a search for 'play games' define).

So it does not necessarily mean to deceive someone. In the context you provide it probably means much closer to be evasive: the author contrasts being (this) direct with playing games, among other things. But it could include the second definition I've cited. Having even more context from the source might help narrow it down.

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