This can be tricky, because of all the variations one can use for a short statement like the ones you are asking about.
For example, if the question is asked as a standalone 3-word question, always use:
Where are we?
However, if the phrase is used as a clause at the end of a question, one would say:
Does anybody know where we are?
As for your two statements, either wording can be correct, depending on how you use punctuation:
I want to know, "Where in the hell are we?"
I want to know where in the hell we are!
Do from is an ‘Indianism’, so use of this phrase must be referred to speakers of that dialect.
In Standard English† we use at with the verb do; the preposition phrase names the place where the work was performed:
I did my doctorate at the University of Wisconsin.
He did an internship at Microsoft.
We use from in this context with receive; the preposition phrase names the entity which conferred the gift:
I received my doctorate from the University of Wisconsin.
In ordinary speech, however, we use the verb get, which may take either preposition phrase (though at is probably more common)
I got my bachelors at Vanderbilt.
I got my bachelors from Vanderbilt.
With do we use at;
In a question, no preposition at all is needed, whichever verb you use:
Where did you do your bachelors?
Where did you get your bachelors?
Where did you receive your bachelors?
†By “Standard English” I mean English usage which will pass unnoticed with any educated native speaker—appropriate to its register and not dialectal, foreign, antiquated, or precious.
Best Answer
Only your example 1 is correct.
The verb "to be located" is the passive form of the less common verb "to locate" (in the corresponding active sense of deciding upon placement), so it is indeed a verb phrase, and your instinct is correct that it requires inversion when phrased as a question. However, when inverting word order to form a question, as in example 1, only invert subject (apartment) and helping verb (is), never the main verb (located).
However, the answer to the question, which is not inverted, would be constructed as
By way of comparison, when asking the question,
You would never ask,
But you would answer,