Does anyone know why this idiom came into existence ? On this website it says:
“A bed of roses” as an idiom originated in England and is quite an old expression. One of the earliest examples can be found in a poem called “The Passionate Shepherd to His Love” written by Christopher Marlowe (also known as Kit Marlowe), published in 1599 after the death of the author.
And I will make thee beds of roses
And a thousand fragrant posies,
A cap of flowers, and a kirtle
Embroidered all with leaves of myrtle— Source: theidioms.com
When I think about this expression, wouldn’t a literal bed of roses be rather thorny and uncomfortable? Unless the idiom is clearly talking about the fragrant smell and not the thorniness of the plant.
Best Answer
Christine Ammer, The American Heritage Dictionary of Idioms, second edition (2013) has this entry for "bed of roses":
As the question poster notes, metaphorical (or at least figurative/symbolic) use of "bed of roses" goes back considerably farther than 1635.
Instances of 'bed of roses' in sixteenth-century English texts
Marlowe was certainly not the first English writer to use the phrase "bed of roses." From John Heywood, "A Rose and a Nettill," in An Hundred Epigrammes (1550):
A bed of roses in this instance is evidently simply a flowerbed occupied (almost) entirely by roses.
From an epistle of Seneca, in a 1576 translation Philippe de Mornay, The Defence of Death Contayning a Moste Excellent Discourse of Life and Death:
The bed of roses in this case is presented as something to lie in—presumably not a flowerbed of rose bushes or a pallet composed of bundles of stemmed (and thorned) roses, but rather a collection of rose petals—soft, delicate, and fragrant.
From Thomas Cooper, Thesaurus Linguæ Romanæ & Britannicæ (1578):
This instance is significant primarily in presenting a nonliterary instance of "bed of roses" in English in 1578 as a common descriptive term.
Froim John Foxe, Actes and Monuments of Matters Most Speciall and Memorable, Happenyng in the Church, volume 2, part 1 (1583):
The "bed of roses" appears immediately after a reference to a "bed of Downe," and both refer to how the martyr is experiencing the fire in which he is being burned to death—evidently because he sees his life passing away and his soul moving toward heaven. This may be the first truly metaphorical use of "bed of roses," since it involves neither a literal flowerbed of roses nor a fanciful promise to construct a bed of rose petals as a love nest or an image of lying luxuriously in such a bed.
From Edmund Spenser, The Faerie Qveene (1590):
Here, as in Seneca's epistle, the bed appears to be a bed of rose petals for the enchantress and er paramour to lie in.
From Thomas Lodge, The Famous, True and Historicall Life of Robert Second Duke of Normandy (1591):
Cephalus is not a character in this narrative but a figure from Greek mythology, famous for an affair with Eos (the dawn goddess, represented here as Morning), which in Lodge's telling involved enjoying each other's company in a bed of roses.
From Richard Barnfield, The Affectionate Shepheard Containing the Complaint of Daphnis for the Loue of Ganymede (1594):
Here a flowerbed of roses is clearly the intended meaning of "bed of roses."
From William Burton, Conclusions of Peace, Betweene God and Man Containing Comfortable Meditations for the Children of God (1594):
The criticism of swine for preferring to wallow in stinking mire in a sweet bed of roses seems oblivious to the thorn issue—unless, again, he imagines a bed of rose petals only, which is not an option that most swine are ever offered.
From T. Cutwode, Caltha Poetarum: or The Bumble Bee (1599):
Since this bed is for a bee, we may suppose that flower petals would suffice for it.
From John Weever, Epigrammes in the Oldest Cut, and Newest Fashion (1599):
The image is once again of a bed of rose blossoms for sleeping or dallying in.
And from Marlowe's poem in William Shakespeare, The Passionate Pilgrime (1599):
In Marlowe's image, as in many of his predecessors', the bed is to be composed only of the blossoms or petals of many, many roses.
Conclusions
In sixteenth-century English writing, "bed of roses" appears in two contexts: as a standard way of say a flowerbed occupied by rose bushes, and as a fanciful bed of rose petal or rose blossoms—but no thorny stems—used as a symbol of luxury, daintiness, and (in some cases) sensual delight. The latter sense frequently arises in situations where the meaning can be taken as figurative, but the phrase still strongly attaches to the image of a literal bed of roses. Indeed multiple English writers of the seventeenth century point to figures from antiquity who slept on beds of rose petals, taking it as a symbol of extreme self-pampering.
Idiomatic use of "bed of roses" to mean simply means something wonderful or a source of great pleasure or comfort does not appear (except, arguably, in the 1583 instance from Foxe's Martyrology).
Such usage does appear in the seventeenth century. For instance, John Collinges, The Spouses Hidden Glory, and Faithfull Leaning upon her Wellbeloved (1646) has this clearly metaphorical instance, where the grave is equated with a "bed of roses":
And from Robert Dixon, [*The nature of the two testaments, or, The disposition of the will and estate of God to mankind for holiness and happiness by Jesus Christ (1676):
Even later are instances of negative settings for "bed of roses," which (as Ammr observes) are quite common today in the form "X is no bed of roses." One of the earliest instances of such usage appears in Anonymous, The Cave of Neptune (1784), which includes the following couplet:
followed by this explanatory note: