The words "nitpicking" and "pedantic" actually define this phenomenon of pointing out others' minor mistakes. I have only this urge to do the nitpicking; I don't necessarily point out that petty mistake but I really have this urge to do the nitpicking and give a damn care to the exasperated sighs.
So, is there a good word for this "urge to do the nitpicking"?
Again, I am not asking for words that define this nitpicking phenomenon, just the urge to uphold it.
Edit (choosing the answer):
I kind of liked the phrase obsessive-compulsive corrector suggested by GMB below… its only shortcoming being its being sort of a medical jargon (as well as a phrase).
Then I rediscovered the term twitch, which relates broadly to my urge.
Ermanen came up with probably the best answer — censorious. At first, I didn't like the word, since it described me as a person who finds fault in almost everything. But I guess I can soften it — "I am just a little bit of censorious."
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If you want to go with one word, it might be censorious: (or censoriousness for the tendency/urge)
The details are more related to psychology but this urge might come from chronic criticism (or having a critical mind).
Psychologytoday mentions that these people are usually self-critical also and this transforms into chronic criticism of others.
Also mentioned is the characteristics of a chronic critic: