Learn English – A word that simultaneously means caring and not caring

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I'm trying to write an essay about teenagers and modern society (I'll spare the details), and I am looking for a word that describes the attitude of both caring about everything (eg. Marks, Social Standing, Achievements), and yet not caring about everything (eg. not doing homework, procrastinating, purposefully aggravating others) The word would describe a person expressing both attitudes at the same time.

Anyone have any ideas?

Best Answer

You might manage to express that idea with // insouciant which is such a self-concious sort of word that although it means 'devil-may-care' it implies a bit of an act.

Otherwise perhaps a paradox: 'deliberately unperturbed', 'with studied indifference', 'puritanically laid-back'. Mix and match until it resonates.

//Insouciant 1829 careless, indifferent, unconcerned. [Shorter OED gives fr and eng pronunciation for which I don’t have the symbols;; try “in-‘sooss-eant” for eng..]

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