This word was on my mind earlier, been trying to remember it but can't. It is used when someone is uncomfortable of meeting someone else; they fear something and overthink. So they try to avoid meeting or seeing people.
It would be used in a sentence like:
I can understand you are [the word here], but…
Best Answer
A few things come to mind in the realm of apprehension:
apprehensive
hesitant
anxious
loath
But without more context, it’s hard to say.