I'm looking for a substitute word or phrase for "rules list." I find this phrase has a key problem: it carries heavy bureaucratic or procedural connotations, and can dissuade people from joining the discussion.
No matter how it's phrased, a "Hey, mind reading the rules first?" carries such a connotation, and I'd like to be rid of it. However, it still needs to communicate the idea that it's a document you need to read, so phrases like "help document" or "FAQ" are out – those imply that you consult them when needed for reference.
Is there a good substitute for "rules" that implies it's not some procedural/formal/bureaucratic process, but also implies it's still necessary to read?
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Anything which is going to be enforced is going to seem at least somewhat oppressive but perhaps some options are better than others.
My opinion is that code of conduct is a relatively nice alternative though. I think it sounds relatively genteel at least. The Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary & Thesaurus defines it as:
The literal signification of the words is rather interesting too. It basically means the laws which originates from or belongs to direction, leadership or guidance. The last three links lead to Noah Webster's American Dictionary of the English Language definitions of each word in the phrase if you want more details, although I doubt you will.