I watched a movie recently in which one of the characters states that his mother doesn't have a maiden name. It really struck me as something odd (I am not a native English speaker), I would have thought the answer would be that his mother's maiden name is the one she's bearing.
However my Irish boyfriend claims one only "obtains" a maiden name once she gets married.
In other words, is maiden name an equivalent of birth name for women?
*EDIT: I think what I'd really like to know is how you answer the question from the movie – what is her maiden name, knowing she's not married?
Best Answer
This definition backs up your boyfriend’s claim.
However, other dictionaries are a little looser:
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/maiden+name
I won’t list all dictionaries I checked, but most imply it's the name 'before marriage'.
I think for all practical purposes, there is no point in using maiden name in reference to the surname of a woman who has never changed her name after marriage.