When I was growing up, if I ever said something similar to "Can I go to the store with Joe?", my mom would correct me with "May I go to the store with Joe?".
Is "May I?" the typical way to ask a question politely or is this just specific to where I grew up or what my mom learned?
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As I learned it, "may" is about permission while "can" is about ability.
So your mother was correcting "Do I have the ability to go to the store with Joe" to "Do I have permission to go to the store..."