I remember "oldest" child is more correctly used when you have more than two children – e.g. my older child (assumption that there are only two children); my oldest child (assumption that there are at least three).
I now hear a lot of people saying "my oldest child" when they have only two. Which is the correct grammar?
Best Answer
I would say 'my elder son' as there are only two sons. If there were three or more, l would have said 'the eldest son'.