Learn English – Is it correct to use the preposition “by” interchangeably with “near”

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Is it correct to use the preposition by interchangeably with near?

I went to the store near me.
I went to the store nearby me.
I went to the store by me.

Are the above sentences all correct? Are they all correct in both American English and British English?

Best Answer

Google gives 22 different prepositional usages for by, including

18: Indicating location of a physical object beside a place or object

and 5 prepositional usages for near, including

1: At or to a short distance away from (a place)

These two are the only cases where it's even feasible to use either - but even then they're not usually interchangeable. Partly because by normally means right next to, with nothing in between, whereas near simply means close to (where close may be a very subjective assessment).

In dialectal usages (Welsh sit by 'ere, the spiritual Kumbaya / come by here), most speakers would use nearby/near here (or perhaps over here, since it's about moving from there just as much as coming here).

Regarding OP's specific examples - I think the default is to use near. Idiomat/dialect favours by in some contexts, but normally only with very close proximity. And we don't normally use by to indicate proximity to anything "moveable" (such as a person). Idiomatically, we use pronouns such as me/him to mean my/his house, but it's still usually near me, not by me.

Nearby is more of an adjective/adverb than a preposition - it seems to have gradually evolved into its current "one-word" status over the past century. OP's example is non-standard - you can speak of a house nearby, or a nearby house, where nearby means near here (or near wherever is being spoken of). But we don't normally speak of a house nearby the shop.