My girlfriend is currently writing an appraisal for work but I was wondering if there was a word/phrase that convey what she is thinking better. She wants to say that while some people like to criticise and blame when others make mistakes, she is the opposite. She has come up with the following:
"acting with integrity/helping others rather than blaming others"
It seems a bit clunky with a repetition of "others" and the forward-slash may seem to show a lack of thought. Upon googling "opposite of blame" and some thought, I have come up with some words and phrases:
- non-judgemental
- positive reinforcement
- highlighting issues and putting suggestions forward
- mistakes are seen as opportunities to learn (although this seems to suggest mistakes made by yourself)
I was wondering if anyone had any helpful suggestions/comments on this. I am looking for something more concise and something that upon reading, is easily understood.
Thanks in advance!
Best Answer
In the context of your question, "support" seems to be an appropriate counterpart to "blame." If that makes sense to you, then consider The word "bulwark," a synonym of support, which has a useful meaning that deals specifically with conflict situations where one person strives to solve the conflict instead of lay blame.
The word itself is a little clunky, but if your girlfriend is the person to offer support and encouragement, this word could serve your need.
In terms of working for the good of the group and avoiding petty disputes, you can call her a "collaborator."
As attributives, both of these could concisely describe her assets.
Good luck.