Person 1: I like you on your racial flow, though.
Person 2: -Is this a racial flow?
1: – Racial flow.
2: Am I feeling a racial flow?
1: Yeah, youʼre feeling racially flowy.
Context is that, Person 1, the guy, is invited over to the house of Person 2, the girl, for the weekend, and is subjected to a lot of racism, and the girl is sorry for her family and she is sorry to have them as her family, since they upset her BF. He says, no need to be sorry, it is nothing important, although he likes her racial flow. My friend suggested that "being on the same flow" might be the meaning I am looking for. On the other hand, I thought he might have found interesting how easily she joins her family in their unintentional racism and she goes with the flow (current). Thanks for your help, sincerely.
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Comments to your question and to an earlier version of my answer make clear that most people think Peele's use of racial flow in the scene you describe is simply conversational and not particularly laden with deeper meaning. I disagree. I may not have the correct interpretation, but Peele is a serious observer of race in America and I don't think he's using the term racial flow without some sort of consciousness about what that means. The whole movie, in fact, hinges on the difference between actual racial attitudes and how those attitudes are hidden through misrepresentation and mistaken perceptions. Isn't that the racial flow of the dialogue you describe?
A Zadie Smith essay in The New Yorker explores Key and Peele's "chameleon comedy" related to racial identity and states:
The Smith essay also speaks of Peele's portrayal of an entitled suburban white girl, not unlike Rose, the character in Get Out.
A blog post about Peele and his comedy partner, Key, is entitled Keanu, Key and Peele, and the Fluidity of Race. supports the notion that observers see Peele's interest in racial fluidity. Why shouldn't language in his movie script reflect that cultural idea of fluidity by coining an idiom, racial flow?
Racial fluidity is a term that is used by sociologists, journalists and now seems to be appearing in some pop culture contexts.
See Urban Dictionary entry for racial fluidity.
Again, I may be totally wrong about the precise meaning of racial flow intended by the writer-director in the movie's dialogue, but I am quite sure Jordan Peele, a biracial man, is familiar with the term racial fluidity and understands that this is part of what he is exploring in his comedy. The movie plot is not subtle. It explores the way the minds of black people s are taken over by white people and also, a modern version of slavery. There's an Asian character in the movie who asks the black character about the advantages and disadvantages of being African American, as though he's deciding which way to aim his racial flow.
Racial flow also seems to allude to sexual flow. See also Urban Dictionary entry for flowjob