Learn English – Single word or phrase – conspiratorially exchanging glances

"Pass" is the appropriate verb:

pass — to cause or permit to complete successfully (an investigation, examination, course of study, etc.): I am passing the whole class this term.

The example usage refers to a study who is "passing" but you can assign the cause to a teacher or professor just like your example does:

I thanked my teacher for passing me on the exam.

This is typically used for classes or courses but it still works for individual passing grades. The opposite of "passing" is "failing":

I thanked my teacher for failing me on the exam.

Since there was a end goal in mind - which was to force the person to go to the restaurant -, I'd suggest manipulate as the word.

manipulate (according to dictionary.com)

noun

to manage or influence skillfully, especially in an unfair manner

'You manipulated me!'

You could call it a manipulative lie.