Learn English – The etymology of the phrase “I’m afraid not”

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When confirming bad news, or replying to a request in the negative it is common to hear one of these two phrases:

I'm afraid so.

or

I'm afraid not.

The general meaning inferred by "I'm afraid" seems to be apologetic, as in: "I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news".

Is someone able to explain why we use this terminology and whether afraid in this sense is the same afraid we use to mean "to be fearful of something"? And if it is, what exactly is it that one is afraid of?

Best Answer

Afraid can have three different meanings; fear, regret or dislike. The two latter forms doesn't really involve real fear, but rather just unease, and it's the second form that you show examples of.

It comes from old english affray, "frighten", and the adjective form of being frightened survived the verb. The first record of it being used in the meaning of regret is from the 1590s.