Learn English – The married man with an affinity

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I was reading a book about events in the 1920's US south; and came across the phrase in a quote from a KKK spokes person. I can't figure out what the phrase means, and haven't been able to find any other use of it to give hints from broader context. For clarity I've included the most complete copy of the quotation I could find
from "The Ku Klux Klan In American Politics" By ARNOLD S. RICE, 1962.

Here is a version of the quote from The Emergence of the New South, 1913-1945, George Brown Tindall, p. 191:

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Best Answer

The word affinity is a synonym or euphemism for mistress. The passage is quoting a proverb making the rounds at that time. Notice that this passage uses quotation marks to indicate words which are a direct quotation. See for example, the Coshocton Tribune, June 3, 1918, p. 4:

A married man with an affinity always runs the risk of talking in his sleep [emphasis added].

The example above is clearly referring to a marital indiscretion, but the specific form it takes is not identified in the quoted proverb. It might refer to simple adultery, or to another taboo such as homosexuality, or to any form of infidelity in general.

@KitFox found another newspaper proverb in The Mt. Sterling Advocate, December 28, 1922. This one makes clear that affinity was used at the time to mean mistress:

The rule that a man’s affinity is younger and better looking than his wife is one that knows blamed few exceptions [emphasis added].

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