In the literal sense, this refers to something becoming untied, unwrapped, unfastened, etc. For example:
Be careful with that gift. If it comes undone, they'll be able to see what is inside.
In the figurative sense, it means that something has either not gone as planned, or has failed in some way. E.g. a plan can come undone meaning it hasn't worked as expected. A person can come undone meaning that they have lost their composure or self-control.
Andy came undone when Ann left him for Steve.
Even I've tried to find references and failed. I can share my personal experience here, though, assuming the OP is a fellow Indian.
"Country fellow" is a slightly offensive phrase in south India. It is merely a direct translation of the words from south Indian languages (Malayalam, Tamil, etc.), for example, "naadan chekkan" in Malayalam.
It has nothing to do with the original meaning of fellow countrymen. What it actually means is a person who is cultureless; or someone not trendy enough (among a group of friends, mostly).
Suppose three friends are discussing western music (say, a rap song by Eminem). If one of them tells that he likes Indian carnatic music more, then the other two might say "Oh, grow up! Don't be such a country fellow".
I hope my explanation is clear. I couldn't find any reliable reference to add here. Perhaps it's enough that searching "country fellows" on google will have results related to south Indian slang.
It can also mean "people from the countryside", but that doesn't usually apply when used among friends.
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Queencess is not a word in the English dictionary. It is blend word formed by combining queen and princess. It is quite a trending hashtag and name though as to why you might have heard it in your neighborhood.