Learn English – When and how did the criminal sense of ‘grooming’ arise

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In a recent CNBC article on Ghislaine Maxwell they say:

Sternheim wrote of Maxwell, who is accused of crimes related to allegedly recruiting and grooming underage girls who later were sexually abused by eccentric investment advisor Jeffrey Epstein,…

Looking up which sense of groom is meant in the article I found the following definition, probably a legal one, in the Cambridge Dictionary:

groom verb [T] (CRIME)

to become friends with a child with the intention of trying to persuade the child to have a sexual relationship.

The above sense does not appear to be related to the more common usage of groom:
looking up its origin in the Online Etymological Dictionary provides no clear information on where the above usage may have come from.

So how and when did groom evolved into a criminal act? Is it an AmE usage?

Best Answer

It almost certainly comes from slightly older senses of groom, meaning to tend and prepare.

In the words of the OED, "groom" can mean:

To tend or attend to carefully; to give a neat, tidy, or ‘smart’ appearance to.

and more relevantly:

To prepare as a political candidate; in extended use, to prepare or coach for a career, a sporting contest, etc. Originally U.S.

The former is traced to 1843, and their examples of the latter go back to 1887. The source of this idiom is obviously from grooming a horse, which means to tend, feed, brush, and look after an animal.

The OED has a draft addition under the entry for groom v.

Of a paedophile: to befriend or influence (a child), now esp. via the internet, in preparation for future sexual abuse.

This goes back to 1985:

Chicago Tribune 28 May v. 8/2 These ‘friendly molesters’ become acquainted with their targeted victim.., gaining their trust while secretly grooming the child as a sexual partner.

They don't give a specific description of how the meaning has shifted but it seems reasonable to suppose it has gone from meaning to tend and prepare a horse for use, to meaning to tend and prepare a human being for a purpose.

"groom, v.". OED Online. December 2020. Oxford University Press. (accessed February 17, 2021).

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