Learn English – Which preposition to use with “unbecoming”

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It is easy when you say something becomes or unbecomes someone. In this case, no preposition is needed. It is another story when the verb turns into the adjective “(un)becoming”. I would like to understand which pick is correct:

a conduct (un)becoming a man

a conduct (un)becoming to a man

a conduct (un)becoming of a man

It is that inner feeling that tells me that the first sentence sounds awkward and misused. The variant with ‘to’ will be better in the verbal phrase “to conduct (un)becoming to a man”. Clearly, the choice becomes number three, or does it?

Best Answer

Evidently all three are grammatical:

unbecoming:

  1. Not in accord with the standards implied by one's character or position:

conduct unbecoming an officer

(AHD)

unbecoming:

  1. behaviour that is unbecoming is shocking or unsuitable

conduct unbecoming to a teacher

(Longman Dictionary)

They maintain that Irving's conduct was unbecoming of a reputable historian.

(http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/unbecoming)