Learn English – Why does ‘coed’ only mean female coeducational students

Cornell University, one of the first universities to embrace coeducation, became a coed institution in 1870. In a 2005 book by Margaret A. Lowe titled Looking Good: College Women and Body Image, 1875-1930, the author explains using first-hand accounts by the pioneering "coeds" of the time:

But once intertwined with feminist politics (whether embraced or disavowed on campus), coeducation further threatened Cornell's decision to admit women. The feminist link painted female students with the derogatory brush of unladylike desire. Considered strident intruders, they took the heat for destabilizing gender categories—it was they who crossed into male space and therefore put their moral authority in doubt. Female students would be called "coeds"; the term "student" referred solely to men. One early Cornellian recalled, "We were called 'co-eds'...and we should have been much more touchy than we were to mind it." In a humorous column for the Cornell Era, another student recalled that on her first day in Ithaca, "a boarding house keeper, of British birth, asked me if I were a a 'co-hed.'...'Co-head'!...But the attitude of our British friend was not so far remote from that of out student brother; to both a coed (A co-head) is an anomaly, a monstrosity."

In other words, the males were called students while the females were not; they were instead called coeds. So, the sexism theory prevails.

Webster's estimated date of first use—1878—is in keeping with the above excerpt. Etymonline's estimate is off by a couple of decades. There are a few other sources that also cover this topic; but all they do is parrot the (correct) dictionary definition rather than provide any real insight into the why and how of the question.