Learn English – Why don’t people understand me when I speak English with a non-rhotic accent

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My name is Arnau and I'm from Barcelona.

Over the last few years, I've been exposed to the British culture a lot (I have British friends, I've been living in Brighton for a while, I watch British TV shows, etc.) and I've kind of 'developed' a British accent. Obviously, I don't speak like a native speaker but many Brits have told me that my pronunciation is pretty good.

However, I've recently noticed that whenever I speak with non-native speakers of English (my classmates at uni, foreigners, my friends, etc.), they tend not to understand me if I speak with my 'default' accent which is non-rhotic. And in order to make them understand me, I need to repeat what I said in a rhotic accent.

So, for example, the other day I was answering a question that my math teacher asked (who's Spanish) and the conversation went like this:

MY TEACHER: What is wrong with these propositions?

ME: You have to change the order (/'ɔː.də'/).

TEACHER: Sorry?

ME: You need to change the order (/'ɔː.də'/).

TEACHER: You need to change what?

ME: The order (/'ɔː.də'/). (I pronounce it slowly and she
doesn't answer anything. So, I repeat 'order' again with a rhotic
accent.) The order (/'ɔːr.dər'/).

TEACHER: Ah! The order (/'or.der/).

Another situation. I was talking to a friend from France.

MY FRIEND: I don't think I'll ever pass the exam.

ME: Maybe you need to work (/wɜːk/) harder (/'hɑː.də/).

FRIEND: I need to what?

ME: Work (/wɜːk/) harder (/'hɑː.də/).

FRIEND: I don't understand you.

ME: You need to work (/wɝːk/) harder (/'hɑːr.dər/).

FRIEND: Ahh okay! Yeah, you're right.

You see what I mean? Why does this happen? Is it because when they teach us English, they only teach us the rhotic variety of English?

Any thoughts?

Thank you.

P.S.: This only happens to me when I speak to non-native speakers. If I talk to my British or American friends with my non-rhotic accent, I don't have any problem being understood.

Best Answer

It is no wonder that educated Americans would have no difficulty with your "British" accent. Educated Americans are generally exposed to many types of "accents" ; same for educated Brits. Among educated English speakers, there is usually no great difficulty understanding English across and between continents.
That your friends and, even, instructors might have problems with your British English is also no wonder. Unless a person is exposed to many different sorts of English, sounds might come that are not expected, and understanding limited.
Since World War 2, (General) American English has had the ascendancy over British English. Not the least reason for this is the popularity of US television and motion pictures. General American has become the de facto world standard, replacing British English, even to a great extent in Europe.
You seem to be handling this issue well.