I am confused about how to use "Why don't you…?" with the verb be.
I know that we can use "Why don't you" with other verbs as in:
Why don't you go with me?
However, I'm not sure if we can use these two sentences.
- Why don't you be a man?
- Why don't you be a doctor?
Best Answer
Normally, questions are only formed with do-support in English if the main verb is not an auxiliary or the copula (be).
This also goes for questions with why:
– but:
So if your question is simply asking what the reason is that someone is X, then you cannot use do after why: you use simple auxiliary inversion instead.
However, the construction “why don't you (just)…” has another, slightly different meaning, too. It can be used as a rhetorical question basically equivalent to a rather crude and exasperated-sounding imperative:
In this usage, there is no real question. The asker doesn't care what the reason behind X not shutting up or not leaving him to do his work are—he just wants X to do it. Basically, the meaning is:
In this usage, the main verb is implicitly interpreted as an action verb, rather than as a stative verb, and the inherently stative verb be ends up forming a very close connection with its predicate, yielding a kind of pseudo-action verb meaning “to do all the things that are normally associated with X”, rather than a stative verb meaning “to have the identity of X”. And this verb-predicate does take do-support:
These semantically mean:
– but because be X is so tightly connected as a unit, it takes do-support when forming these rhetorical why-questions.