[Ethereum] The transaction failed because of low gas but the eth was not refunded on mew

The ethers will not appear in your account until you have downloaded the blockchain to the block number containing your transaction. Let the blockchain sync.
You can use --fast --cache=1024 for faster downloading the blockchain. Refer How can I get a geth node to download the blockchain quickly?.
If you want to use your ethers urgently, you can use platforms like MyEtherWallet to import your private keys. But it's up to you if you don't want to trust a third party, better wait and let your blockchain to sync completely.

You set a gas limit of 60000 which is very low for a token transaction. On the Send Ether and Tokens there is an input for Gas limit set it to something high like 200,000 so the transaction goes through. You can set the gas price low (in top bar of MEW) if you are not in hurry.

Recall that:

Cost of Transaction = gasLimit * gasPrice.

So even with a high limit, you don't have to spend a lot if you are willing set the gasPrice low and wait a few blocks.