If I give the wife an item I intend for her to use, how can I be sure she won’t sell it

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I married Lydia and since she's also a follower, I occasionally give her weapons and armor for use when we're adventuring. Does the game keep track of the difference between things I sell her (I.e. "What have you got for sale?" Option) vs things I place in her inventory? ("I need to trade some items with you.") When I put items in her inventory, I noticed some showed up for sale in her store, but when I sold her items, they simply disappeared.

Best Answer

From the UESP Marriage article.

You don't need to worry about losing items by placing them in your spouse's inventory because they sold them to someone. Like all merchants in the game, they will actually only sell things to you, and not other people.