Marry Ysolda

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Ok, so I like Ysolda more than any of the other women in the game Skyrim, and I really wanted to have her as my wife on the game. However, I don't know if that is possible, or how to initiate the marriage dialogue if it is. Little help?

Best Answer

For Ysolda to become available you must complete the sidequest she gives you to fetch a mammoth tusk.

You must also have spoken to Maramal in Riften about conducting weddings to allow marriage in general.

After doing these two things you simply need to speak to her while wearing an Amulet of Mara and follow through the dialogue.

Related Solutions

Grelka. Light of the life. Fire of the loins. My sin, My soul. Why the hell won’t you marry me

According to some sources, Grelka is supposed to be available to the player as a potential spouse after the amulet of Mara has been acquired, but a bug prevents the dialogue option from opening, possibly due to a removed or bugged quest. This can be solved on the PC by targeting her in the console and using the command "addtofaction 19809 1", as well as the code "setrelationshiprank player 4 " which will open up the option for marriage. However, this is done at the player's own risk.

With 1.3 patch, the bug still needs fixing, but only typing "setrelationshiprank player 2" on her will do the trick.

This should enable the marriage dialogue options.

I want a divorce! What’s the most painless way of obtaining one

From UESP wiki, "Skyrim - Marriage" article:

Steps to re-marry / divorce using console commands (PC only):

Select spouse.
Enter the following console commands:
removefac 51596
player.removefac C6472
resetquest 74793
resetquest 21382
setstage 74793 10
Wait for 24 hours.
Then proceed to marry as normal.

From TES Wiki, "Marriage - Divorce (PC)" article:

Trying to breakup with partners is, for some reason, impossible without the console. Searching for help "breakup" 4 will bring up dialogue and quests that show reference to what must have been the original intention of breaking up with a spouse.

Option one

The relationshipbreakup quest can be used. Use the console to enter these commands:

completequest 0007431B
resetquest 0007431B
resetquest 00021382

(This is just formality to reset the "marriage" quest.) The above will prevent the player from having to kill his spouse, although they will comment on how much even the thought of him makes their blood boil. Untested, but possibly setrelationshiprank player 4 can fix this

Option two

The spouse must be killed
The console command Setstage RelationshipMarriage 10 must then be used
The console commands resurrect should next be used on the ex-spouse (and eventually the command setrelationshiprank player 4 on him/her to keep the relationship status obtained with the NPC related quests)
The old Amulet of Mara doesn't need to be dropped or sold.

Option three

The Amulet of Mara necklace must be retained, or another one must be found.
Any wanted items should be taken from the current spouse before starting this process.
The following commands must be used, after targeting the spouse:
- removefac 51596
- player.removefac C6472
- resetquest 74793
- resetquest 21382
- setstage 74793 10
The old spouse will immediately exit the house and return to their regular location.
24 hours must be waited.