mass-effect-3
So I finally get to meet the Illusive Man, but the final 2 renegade/paragon option are greyed out! Here are my stats:
However I still can't choose the Paragon/Renegade option. How do I do that?
The non-romantic paragon version of the prayer is (differences in bold)
Kolyat: Kalahira, this one's heart is pure, but beset by wickedness and contention.
Shepard: Guide this one to where the traveler never tires, the lover never leaves, the hungry never starve.
Shepard:Guide this one, Kalahira, and he will be a companion to you as she was to me.
The dialogue at the ending of the prayer is the same as you noted;
The prayer was not for him, Commander. He has already asked forgiveness for the lives he has taken. His wish was for you.
As indicated in comments the final line of the scene is different, with Shepard saying Good bye Thane, you won't be alone long. instead of Goodbye, Thane. Meet you across the sea.
You can view it at this link
It seems that you need to be at the third rank of the reputation to be able to convince Din Korlak to send his fleet to save the Volus' One.
This will cause Turian Sixth Fleet to suffer -10 points, but you'll get voolus Bombing Fleet which value is 75 points. Unless you Zaed is alive, where there will be no penalty.
Source: List of maximizing War Assets thread on Bioware forum
Best Answer
To end the standoff with the Illusive man via Charm / Intimidate, you need to have previously used Charm / Intimidate in every conversation with him.
There are 6 in total: Once on Mars, once on Thessia[1], once on the Cerberus Base, and three times in the final conversation on the Citadel.
The first three are hidden within left-side (investigate) branches of the dialog tree, and you can only use the final Charm / Intimidate if you have succeeded at all the previous 6.
1: The Paragon/Renegade rewards for the Charm/Intimidate dialogue options on Thessia are switched around, so if you wish to maximize your Paragon points, you must choose Intimidate and vice versa. Doing so will not prevent you from convincing the Illusive Man at the end of the game.