If I remember well experience gained depends on monster levels and does not scale with your level. You are right, the experience that you get from killing mini-bosses is very high compared to that acquired from killing normal monsters.
There is also a type of fish that increase your XP gain by 20% for 300 seconds. Remember to eat one of that before big fights.
While T2 is definitely a direct sequel of T1, you have to realize, these are both games that focus on "kill everything that moves" and "loot everything you see". The storyline is only there to help players become familiar with areas and the enemies that arise from them, but isn't necessary play T1 over T2.
Honestly though, T2 is a completely reworked version of T1 that features a whole slew of new improvements, as well as dedicated modding support, etc.
Consider this, it's very much like the L4D series. While L4D had a storyline, and so did L4D2, the story lines were only vaguely connected, but the game was more about a zombie co-op game. This isn't to say the storyline was non-existent, but it's there to guide players to understand what's happening around them. Gameplay-wise, much like TL2, L4D2 is a very very nice upgrade to L4D, in that there are more weapons, more game modes, more special infected, and other nice sweets.
Basically, consider T2 over T1 as a nice upgrade, with more features than its predecessor. If you really really care about storyline, by all means, it doesn't hurt to play T1. If you really like gameplay, then I'd say it really doesn't matter.
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Since Torchlight II will have completely new character classes, and none of the ones from Torchlight I will have a comingback, you will not be able to use old characters.
It is also stated in Torchlight II FAQ in Runic Games official Forum: