The rules you've quoted on combining magical effects are unambiguous - these two effects stack, since they're not from the same source.

As for how they stack, the answer is your fourth choice. While in previous editions the rule was that multipliers stacked additively, not multiplicatively, 5e has no such rule. Likewise, 5e has no concept of "base value". When you use Step of the Wind, your jump distance is doubled. Then when you use Jump, your jump distance is tripled.

It should be noted that High Jump, like Long Jump, states that each foot you jump costs a foot of movement, so the distance you can jump is still constrained by your move speed. Obviously there are numerous methods of getting a very high move speed, but it is still an important constraint on your ability to leap skyscrapers in a single bound.

Also worth noting is that, as the highest rated answer on your linked question says, you still take falling damage when you jump, so another constraint on your ability to jump into the stratosphere is the damage you will take when you land.

And finally, to dismiss any concerns about balance, I have to point out that this requires a 1st-level spell and a 2nd level Monk feature to pull off, and Fly is a 3rd-level spell. And that's not even mentioning the fact that you can reasonably expect to be fighting flying enemies right from the start at level 1. This "super jump" is a cool trick, but ultimately not that useful or powerful.

They take damage from both fireballs

The key for me is the word "effects" from your quote:

The effects of the same spell cast multiple times...

I would argue that the damage dealt from the fireball is not an "effect" in the context of what your quote is talking about. This spell simply deals damage and has no additional "effects".

Furthermore (as pointed out by @PJRZ), the section you quote from begins with this sentence:

The effects of different spells add together while the durations of those spells overlap. (PHB, pg. 205)

This suggests that spells that simply have an instantaneous effect do not come under this rule, this they effectively have no durations. This also confirms that the context I mention above is for ongoing effects of a spell, where considering overlapping bonuses or additional effects makes more sense.

Instantaneous isn't a real duration, it's just a category of duration for the purposes of that property of a spell

Instantaneous means it has no duration; as for the duration of a spell being listed as instantaneous, I understand duration in this context to simply mean the name of a category, a property of the spell, but it isn't actually a "duration" unless a number is given (or "Until dispelled"); i.e. until a period of time passes to make "duration" meaningful.

From PHB, pg. 203:

Duration

A spell's duration is the length of time the spell persists. A duration can be expressed in rounds, minutes, hours or even years. Some spells specify that their effects last until the spells are dispelled or destroyed.

Instantaneous

Many spells are instantaneous. The spell harms, heals, creates or alters a creature or an object in a way that can't be dispelled, because the magic only exists for an instant.

Further, Xanathar's Guide to Everything (pg. 77) has this to say about Simultaneous Effects (thanks to @V2Blast for suggesting this):

If two or more things happen at the same time on a character or monster’s turn, the person at the game table — whether player or DM — who controls that creature decides the order in which those things happen. For example, if two effects occur at the end of a player character’s turn, the player decides which of the two effects happens first.

This also suggests that both fireballs should be resolved separately, making separate saving throws and damage rolls as though they did not happen simultaneously, but rather one after the other as though they happened a fraction of time apart.

Finally, the Essentials Kit includes some of these rules, but with a slightly different wording (thanks @Medix2). In the Essentials Kit Rulebook, on p. 3, under the section "Effects with the Same Name Don't Stack":

But when two or more effects have the same proper name, only one of them applies while the durations of the effects overlap (a duration is a time span of 1 round or more).

Durations is mentioned again, as in the PHB quote I included earlier in this answer (from p. 205), but in this case, what counts as a duration is made explicit; "a duration is a time span of 1 round or more". This also points to Instantaneous not being a real duration, further suggesting that both fireballs would deal damage.