[RPG] How to create meaningful relationships with NPCs

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How do I help the PCs to create meaningful relationships with NPCs?

Maybe it is a result of my group playing too many one-dimensional adventures trying to find whatever MacGuffin they are after each week, but most of the time my PCs don't tend to value NPCs too much. Every time they meet an NPC they quickly evaluate what immediate values the NPC can give or tend to ignore them.

What I would really like is to have some good relationships where the PCs actually go out of their way to help NPCs without selfish motivation or even just to try to think of NPCs more and how their actions affect others.

I am not looking for a specific game rules solution to this, but instead techniques to get the players to feel attachment to these fictional characters.

Best Answer

Make the NPCs a vital part of the story.

Earning Trust

Perhaps the NPC is there for the PCs during tough times. Receiving a "get out of jail free card" once in a while from a prominent NPC can go a long way into the PCs caring. Also, increasing the amount of dialogue and feedback between the PCs and the NPCs also go a long way into developing a relationship.

Coercion

Perhaps there is an effect (curse, magic, hostage, blackmail, etc) in place that forces the PC's to care about the NPCs whether they really care to or not. "This or/for that" can be a very good story arc for the PC's to overcome and interact with. If the PC's make a wrong move toward the NPCs, then disaster can strike at any moment.

Overall Effect

The more you have your NPCs as part of the PCs' lives, they will care about them one way or the other. Have drawbacks that affect the PCs or lack of reward if the NPCs are neglected. Have boosts that affect the PCs or abundance of reward if the NPCs are not neglected.

It will really come down to what you, as the storyteller, give the PCs information and facilitation for a relationship with the NPCs. Whenever you read a novel, you as the reader will either care or not care about the protagonist/antagonist due to the writing style of the author. Your NPCs/PCs will be no different. Think of your roleplaying sessions as a chapter in a story novel you are writing. With that frame of mind, the PC's will flourish in ways you haven't seen them perform yet.