[RPG] the origin of the term describing a game as a ‘Heartbreaker’

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I’ve often heard the term ‘fantasy heartbreaker’ used to describe a game. Where did this term originate and how was it used?

Matt Colville used the phrase 'fantasy heartbreaker' in his YouTube video "break Your Heart – Running the Game #71". youtu.be/nHv1EUYkqoM

Best Answer

Obviously the word has existed to describe a person (or thing) who broke hearts, often pejoratively, long before it was applied to RPGs.

For the specific RPG usage, it originated in this 2002 essay by game designer Ron Edwards.

This essay is about some 1990s games I'm calling "fantasy heartbreakers," which are truly impressive in terms of the drive, commitment, and personal joy that's evident in both their existence and in their details - yet they are also teeth-grindingly frustrating, in that, like their counterparts from the late 70s, they represent but a single creative step from their source: old-style D&D.