Grammaticality – Why a Grammar Checker Replaces ‘The Key to Have’ with ‘The Key to Having’

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I have written the sentence but grammarly.com says that you need to change "have" to "having".

The key to have having a successful marriage is to remain calm during
conflicts because it is nearly impossible to patch things up after a
couple break up.

Why is "have" wrong here?

Best Answer

The idiom is "The key to something", with "to" being a preposition, used idiomatically instead of "for". So we say "the key to the door" or "the key to my heart".

So after "the key to ..." we need the object of the preposition "to", this can be a noun or a gerund, but not a verb. So "The key to having..." is correct, "the key to have...." is not correct.

Don't think that "to" always marks an infinitive. Sometimes it is just a preposition.

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