So of late I've been hearing a lot of people call other people (or their actions) milk toast. I thought it was weird because those two words should conjure up breakfast food and not "spineless". So I used my Google-Fu to determine what exactly it was.
Turns out milk toast, which is what my ears were hearing, is actually Milquetoast, a character from a comic strip in the 1930's. The name of the character was so popular, it was made into a word and used in the English language. Definition:
Milquetoast (source)
milque·toast [milk-tohst]
noun ( sometimes initial capital letter )
a very timid, unassertive, spineless person, especially one who is easily dominated or intimidated: a milquetoast who's afraid to ask for a raise.
Origin:
1935–40, Americanism; after Caspar Milquetoast, a character in The Timid Soul, comic strip by H. T. Webster (1885–1952), American cartoonist
The character, Caspar Milquetoast, was apparently named after milk toast because it was bland and unassuming.
People tend to say or write this term as milktoast or milk toast. Buuuuuuuut the only one that has the definition similar to milquetoast is milktoast, as seen here:
Milktoast (source)
milk-toast [milk-tohst]
adjective
1.easily dominated; extremely mild; ineffectual; namby-pamby; wishy-washy.
noun
2. milquetoast.Origin: 1815–25
But I'm having difficulty with the origin of the word. Milquetoast made the usage popularized and basically created the term… but somehow milktoast came earlier than milquetoast?
Both of these definitions came from dictionary.com, so I thought it was just a mistake. But I can't find any other good references to milktoast's origin outside of urban dictionary, which isn't helping me with this current problem. So I'm not sure if this really is a mistake or if milktoast is just… not a word.
In looking up milktoast, I found milk-toast. Since it's hyphenated, I thought it must be a compound but… I can't find a single other use of milk-toast outside of dictionary.com. I don't even know it it's a word. And again, I can't find anything that tells me about it's origin.
So what I want to know is…
- Are milktoast/milk-toast actually words? Are they just improper spellings of milquetoast?
Also, if they are words, do they predate milquetoast? Do they mean the same thing as milquetoast?
- Is writing the term as milk toast wrong?
I almost always see milquetoast written not in the French form "milquetoast" but the English form "milk toast". Technically, writing "milk toast" in place of "milquetoast" is wrong because they don't mean the same thing, but people seem to do that because they hear it as "milk toast". And the word milquetoast is technically derived from milk toast. So I don't know if the use of milk toast in place of milquetoast is wrong.
Best Answer
Milk toast (or milk-toast or milktoast) as a bland, nutritious, easily digested food is mentioned at least as far back as 1884. Maria Parloa, The Appledore Cook Book: Containing Practical Receipts for Plain and Rich Cooking (1884) has this entry under "Miscellaneous Receipts":
And Kurt Heppe, Explanations of all terms used in Coockery-Cellaring and the preparation of drinks (1908) offers this alternative definition:
Milktoast has long been a recommended dietary element for very young children. Thus, in Isaac Burney Yeo, Food in Health and Disease (1890), we find these recommendations under "Schedule of Infant-Feeding":
This association with infancy no doubt contributes to the pejorative tone of milktoast or milquetoast when applied to an adult. As others have noted, the cartoon character Caspar Milquetoast appeared in H. T. Webster's "The Timid Soul" one-panel strips starting in 1924. Most early instances of "a milquetoast" that a Google Books search returns capitalize the M in the word.
The phrase "a Caspar Milquetoast" appears in four different Google Books sources from 1939—the American Institute of Architects' periodical The Octagon, Florence Finch Kelly's Flowing Stream: The Story of Fifty-six Years in American Newspaper Life, Livingston Harley's Our Maginot Line: The Defense of the Americas, and Motion Picture Review Digest.
The earliest appearance of the phrase "a 'Milquetoast'" in Google Books search results is in Robert Bales & Talcott Parsons, Family: Socialization and Interaction Process (1956):
And "a Milquetoast" (without quotation marks around the name) appears a year later in The Lasting South: Fourteen Southerners Look at Their Home (1957) [snippet]:
But instances of "a milquetoast" with a lowercase m appear in 1958 in The Annual Survey of Psychoanalysis, in Best's Insurance News, in the United Steelworkers of America's Proceedings of the Constitutional Convention, and in New York Theatre Critics' Reviews.
Instances of "a milktoast" are even earlier, starting with Mary Harmon Lasher, Logging Chance (1944) [snippet]:
"How about the bookkeeper?" They were nearing the tug now, their heads close together. Mike played the spotlight slowly.
"He's a milktoast. Boyle tells him what to do."
Similarly, this Pitney-Bowes ad appeared in (among other periodicals) Burroughs Clearing House (1946), Dun's Review (1947), The New Yorker (1947), American Business (1948), and The Office: Magazine of Office Equipment (1948) [snippet]:
The absence of any matches for "a milktoast" in Google Books results before the heyday of Caspar Milquetoast strongly suggests that "a milktoast" as a pejorative term owes its existence to him. On the other hand, H. T. Webster didn't pull "Caspar Milquetoast" out of the thin air.
To appreciate the freighted pedigree of milktoast and milquetoast, we need to take into account the much earlier word milksop—which originally referred to "bread soaked in milk," but which English speakers began using centuries ago as an insult term for what Merriam-Webster's calls "an unmanly man."
One early instance of milksop used in this sense appears in Shakespeare's Richard III (1592):
Another early instance is in Beaumont and Fletcher, Love's Cure, or The Martial Maid (1647):
And apropos of "whay-blooded," Samuel Johnson, in one of his "Notes on the Merchant of Venice," in The Plays of Shakespeare (1771 edition), has this to say about red blood in contradistinction to milk:
With that lineage, it is hardly baffling to see "The Timid One" in 1924 christened "Caspar Milquetoast."