I'm looking for an idiom or phrase similar to "dig your own grave"
It's for this scenario:
Person 1 made a comment and is now attempting to explain it/talk themselves out of an awkward situation, but they are just making it worse.
Person 2 tells them "stop, you're digging your own grave"
I need something better than "digging your own grave" because it doesn't flow with the rest of the scenario. It's not snappy/quick enough.
Could "quit while you're ahead" work? It sounds good but based on the meaning of it I'm not sure it fits properly.
I hope someone can help – I also hope my question makes sense, I have no idea it's half 6 in the morning and I haven't slept yet so brain is running a little slower than normal 😛
CJ x
Best Answer
I offer two idioms for your consideration: quit while [one is] behind and cut [one's] losses.
But first, let's look at the more traditional phrase "quit while [one is] ahead." Christine Ammer, The American Heritage Dictionary of Idioms, second edition (2013) has this entry for that phrase:
According to Charles Doyle, Wolfgang Mieder & Fred Shapiro, The [Yale] Dictionary of Modern Proverbs (2012), the expression "quit while you're ahead" goes back only to 1919:
Within fifty years, however, people had begun occasionally using a variation on this expression that comes much closer to the sense that the posted question requires: quit while [one is] behind, meaning to stop making things worse by continuing to pursue a losing or failing course of action.
For example, from Ohio AFL-CIO, News and Views (1968), quoting a column by James Reston in the New York Times that was reprinted in the Columbus [Ohio] Citizen-Journal on November 8, 1968 [combined snippets]:
The expression also appears in David Profumo, The Weather in Iceland (1993) [combined snippets]:
And from David Berg, The Trial Lawyer: What It Takes to Win (2006):
The other relevant idiomatic phrase, which has much the same sense as "quit while you're behind," is cut [one's] losses. Jeffrey Moore, Prisoner in a Red-Rose Chain (1999) uses both expressions in the same sentence: